You never know who you would've known... | phidget's Blog

I regretfully must announce that I have lost an EP friend due to my neutrality... and though I am saddened at the loss of someone I had barely gotten to know and had hoped to get to know better... I must stand my ground on my stance of neutrality.  I do not choose sides... I stand up for statements made by others that I believe to be along the same line of thought of how I feel.  I do not pick one person over another... I won't automatically choose a friend over someone who I don't know at all... I am a fair and open-minded person and believe that I have remained so on this site as I do in person.  An argument (or whatever one may call it) on here that is none of my business will remain just that... I don't feel the need to validate anyone regardless of their relationship with me... if I stand behind their statement then I may make a comment on such but I will not attack someone just because they attacked a friend of mine... I know that this concept is foreign to some as they like to instigate and propagate drama but I am a drama free person and will continue to live my life as so.  

I do not mean to offend or hurt anyone... I do not mean to turn anyone against me or others... I do not expect anyone to agree with me nor do I think that I should be expected to agree with anyone as well... we are all individuals and free in our thoughts and feelings... I can only be me... and those who erase me as a friend because of a conflict between them and someone on my friends list is only losing the opportunity at getting to know someone they may have a lot more in common than they thought.

I wish everyone (my EP friends and those I do not know) all the best and hope that they find what they are looking for... but I must also say that you never know who would have known if you don't take that chance...