Wow... that's all I have to say... | phidget's Blog

I come on here because it is normally a very pleasant experience and I have been able to talk to people who have gone through the same things as I... I've made some really good friends... and I have helped others...

BUT... here's what I don't like... I don't like drama... I know everyone wants a voice and they want to say what they want to say... this is an open forum and everyone is given the opportunity to voice their opinion...  and when someone says something that you don't agree with, that's awesome that you want to voice your opinion to them... but why argue... throwing stones across the street at someone isn't productive... here's what's productive (in my opinion) ignore them... don't fuel their flame... don't let them bother you...  write your own take on their post... but don't argue your point to deaf ears... the person may have written  the post to get attention in the first place... if their post if made in a matter of fact way then you know no matter what you say is going to make a difference... you can't change someones mind but what you can do is post your own story contradictory to theirs... oppose them in a non-confrontational way... let them say what they want to say and you do the same...

I just hate seeing someone getting everyone riled up and they are so close-minded that they don't want to hear anyone's opinion but everyone wants to shout at the top of their lungs what they think of this person... obviosuly this person isn't listening and it makes you look like the devil... don't let them make you look like anything you aren't... some people are  good at poking until you lose your shit... they love it... they like seeing you like that... so say fuck it and move on... they aren't important in the grand scheme of things and they don't matter in the real world... let them be the one in a billion with a miniscule voice and no action... but don't let them mar your reputation or make you seem less than you are...

Igorance is ignorance... you can't beat it... all you can do is help not to spread it!

That's just me thinking out loud...